About Me
Hmm...well I am single 29 highly stubborn, sassy, once I give my friendship it is there for life unless you betray my friendship. I plan on remaining single unless something changes my mind. I am straight. I do not plan to have children & will not change my mind on this.
I don't have a lot of friends in the off line world, but the ones that I do I treasure. But I have tons of friends in the online world. Hmm...wouldn't that make them friends in the off line world too?
I am currently working on getting disability for seizures that my doctor can not figure out the cause of. Most every day I wake up in pain of one sort or another. Hence is the reason why some days I am cranky & some days in a good mood. It all depends on how many seizures I have had & how much pain I am in. I also do not sleep well, so I tend to keep strange hours.
I talk a lot about my parents (a true love-irritating relationship), Jock, Desi, & Rhea. My parents are the best. They take care of me & pay my bills. They have gone above & beyond the call of parents. Please, don't think that I am a free-loading person. I was raised to be very independent & it constantly irritates me that I have to live off of them. I would much rather be working for my living, but when your seizures are not under control & you pass out with no warning you are unable to work. So my parents are nice enough to take care of me & I do my best not to ask for much.
Jock is my rock. He is two years older then me & is the adopted father of Desi (9 yo). We have known each other since 1998. Whoa that is 11 years now. Geesh, I didn't realize that. Well, if anyone knows me almost as well as my mother it would be Jock. If I need someone to shelter me, hold me, or just be there, this is the man. No, he isn't my boyfriend, he is just a friend that is a male.
Desi is my adopted daughter. She is talked about, but I will never show pictures of her. I don't like seeing pictures of children on the internet. I have nothing against parents that do so, but Desi will not be on the internet.
Rhea, dear sweet Rhea. She is my absolute dearest friend. She lives in Ireland (she abandoned me to get married, I tell you). If two people can be like sisters then that would be Rhea & me. She is a bubbly perky person. Trust me if you are in a bad mood it won't last around her.
I believe that takes care of about me explanation. If I have missed anything or you want something specific then ask it in the comments & I will add it to the entry. Yep, Stephanie this entry is just for you.
Questions
1. You have parents that you live with.
No, I don't live with my parents. I live on my parents farm in a trailer. I just spend most of my time at my parent's house.
2. You don't work, per say, but you do help them with their work, yes?
I do a lot of research for my father. But I don't get paid or anything. Most of it is just favors. You know, would you mind doing this for me. I am trying to get disability & in trying I can't work or show that I can work.
3. Is Desi, like, for real your adopted daughter?
It is confusing, but let me see if I can explain it. Yes, Desi is my adopted daughter. If I wanted to take Jock to court for custody I could. The way the lawyers wrote up the papers (I was currently sick at the time) is that Jock is her father I am her mother, we are her adoptive parents with Jock have sole custody at the moment. If something should happen to Jock then Desi comes to me unless I decide differently & if I should decide that she goes elsewhere then I remain in control of the choices that the other family makes for her. So basically, if Jock died today, legally Desi would come to live with me. But since all her friends live where Jock lives I would ask that she live with Mei-Mei's (her best friend) parents. But in do so I would still remain in control of the trust account & in charge of all decisions revolving around the major care & well being of Desi. Though in all actuality I would probably just move into Jock's house, lol.
4. And Jock is her paper work, adoptive father?
Yes, Jock is her adoptive father. Paperwork & all.
5. So she has two BFFs raising her?
Yep, though I have to admit Jock is a little dumb when it comes to parenthood sometimes, lol. But after five years he is getting better at it.
6. Where does she live, and where does Jock live? At your house? Does Desi live with Jock or you, or does she split time between both (if Jock doesn't live with you)?
Jock & Desi live about 40 miles away. Desi knows that I am sick, but she doesn't know the details. She still has a fear of abandonment (from that bitch of a mother of her) so we are hesitant to tell her everything until we know what is wrong with me. I will spend weekends at Jock's house a lot or day times there whenever I can. Like this weekend, I am planning on spending the weekend with them. You can never really tell where I am going to be one the weekends.
I don't have a lot of friends in the off line world, but the ones that I do I treasure. But I have tons of friends in the online world. Hmm...wouldn't that make them friends in the off line world too?
I am currently working on getting disability for seizures that my doctor can not figure out the cause of. Most every day I wake up in pain of one sort or another. Hence is the reason why some days I am cranky & some days in a good mood. It all depends on how many seizures I have had & how much pain I am in. I also do not sleep well, so I tend to keep strange hours.
I talk a lot about my parents (a true love-irritating relationship), Jock, Desi, & Rhea. My parents are the best. They take care of me & pay my bills. They have gone above & beyond the call of parents. Please, don't think that I am a free-loading person. I was raised to be very independent & it constantly irritates me that I have to live off of them. I would much rather be working for my living, but when your seizures are not under control & you pass out with no warning you are unable to work. So my parents are nice enough to take care of me & I do my best not to ask for much.
Jock is my rock. He is two years older then me & is the adopted father of Desi (9 yo). We have known each other since 1998. Whoa that is 11 years now. Geesh, I didn't realize that. Well, if anyone knows me almost as well as my mother it would be Jock. If I need someone to shelter me, hold me, or just be there, this is the man. No, he isn't my boyfriend, he is just a friend that is a male.
Desi is my adopted daughter. She is talked about, but I will never show pictures of her. I don't like seeing pictures of children on the internet. I have nothing against parents that do so, but Desi will not be on the internet.
Rhea, dear sweet Rhea. She is my absolute dearest friend. She lives in Ireland (she abandoned me to get married, I tell you). If two people can be like sisters then that would be Rhea & me. She is a bubbly perky person. Trust me if you are in a bad mood it won't last around her.
I believe that takes care of about me explanation. If I have missed anything or you want something specific then ask it in the comments & I will add it to the entry. Yep, Stephanie this entry is just for you.
Questions
1. You have parents that you live with.
No, I don't live with my parents. I live on my parents farm in a trailer. I just spend most of my time at my parent's house.
2. You don't work, per say, but you do help them with their work, yes?
I do a lot of research for my father. But I don't get paid or anything. Most of it is just favors. You know, would you mind doing this for me. I am trying to get disability & in trying I can't work or show that I can work.
3. Is Desi, like, for real your adopted daughter?
It is confusing, but let me see if I can explain it. Yes, Desi is my adopted daughter. If I wanted to take Jock to court for custody I could. The way the lawyers wrote up the papers (I was currently sick at the time) is that Jock is her father I am her mother, we are her adoptive parents with Jock have sole custody at the moment. If something should happen to Jock then Desi comes to me unless I decide differently & if I should decide that she goes elsewhere then I remain in control of the choices that the other family makes for her. So basically, if Jock died today, legally Desi would come to live with me. But since all her friends live where Jock lives I would ask that she live with Mei-Mei's (her best friend) parents. But in do so I would still remain in control of the trust account & in charge of all decisions revolving around the major care & well being of Desi. Though in all actuality I would probably just move into Jock's house, lol.
4. And Jock is her paper work, adoptive father?
Yes, Jock is her adoptive father. Paperwork & all.
5. So she has two BFFs raising her?
Yep, though I have to admit Jock is a little dumb when it comes to parenthood sometimes, lol. But after five years he is getting better at it.
6. Where does she live, and where does Jock live? At your house? Does Desi live with Jock or you, or does she split time between both (if Jock doesn't live with you)?
Jock & Desi live about 40 miles away. Desi knows that I am sick, but she doesn't know the details. She still has a fear of abandonment (from that bitch of a mother of her) so we are hesitant to tell her everything until we know what is wrong with me. I will spend weekends at Jock's house a lot or day times there whenever I can. Like this weekend, I am planning on spending the weekend with them. You can never really tell where I am going to be one the weekends.